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milano27yo
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  Date Posted: Monday, September 28, 2009, 04:57:20 PM    View milano27yo Profile     Send Private Message to milano27yo

Hi guys. For my first time visit to Brazil, I'm looking forward to experience a truly X…XL member:-), that is hard (both dick and fucking habit) and durable. If you could propose someone who fits that description I would be grateful….
 
Also, is it a problem for top guys that I’m 193 tall and passive? Seems to me that they are all around 175ish… Any advice?
 
Thnx!

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 Never fear!!! I believe they are good enough swordsmen to find the appropriate entry point.  But beware of the low overhead on the stairs going into the basement lockers and saunas at 117. 


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I think you'll find a number of guys who will appeal to you. And I'm sure they won't be intimidated by your height. It's true that most of the guys are shorter than you are, but there are some tall guys available, too. So you should have a good time! Don't worry about it! Enjoy!


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Date Posted:  Tuesday, September 29, 2009, 01:16:12 AM     view milano27yo profile  send private message to milano27yo

Thnx guys! I hope I'll manage.:-) After all, we are all the same height lying down.:-)))))

Also, I noticed that the pictures of the guys recommended on these sites are mostly white Brazilians, but I have a weak point for brown and black ones... Reading that the skin colour is an issue also in Brazil (??? don't like this), can you provide me with the info are they to be found in the saunas also? What's the best one for a beautifull black or brown stud?

Thnx guys! This is a great site!

 


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Date Posted:  Tuesday, September 29, 2009, 02:24:38 AM     view Drey profile  send private message to Drey

Welcome to the site, Milano and glad you're pleased.

You will find a great cross-section of all types and colors in all of the Rio saunas.   The further north you go in Brazil, the darker the skin complexion (as a generality).  The further south you go, is mostly of German and Polish descent with lighter tones, even though they described me as "rosado", or pink in Porto Alegre   Rio is probably the best melting pot.

I'm still a bit confused since I had read that the word "negro" was the more polite term in describing their skin color, but then I met a handsome dark-skinned guy who informed me that "preto" which literally means black in Portuguese was more polite.  Maybe others can clarify this.

But whatever the term, there are some quite attractive dark skinned guys with more European looks that I'm sure you will find interesting.

And regardless of the skin color, I'm sure you will find some XL equipment.  I thought I had a "type" before I visited Brazil and then I found that my type is "all guys Brazilian"!  LOL

- Drey


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Date Posted:  Tuesday, September 29, 2009, 06:58:22 AM     view Mandrak profile  send private message to Mandrak

Milano, I just got back from Rio a week a go and I am taller than you (202). They don’t mind that, believe me. I go both ways but I had 4 top gays and they where not intimidated by me. Some of them are tall (180 – 190) some shorter (170 – 175) but most of them where XXL. At least half of them are darker, some brown, some black. One of my favorite boys, Yago from Niteroi is a regular in 117, dark, tall and very sweet personality. It is safe to take him to dinner, night club and hotel after sauna if you want to. So don’t worry, you will have all the fun that you can take.

Mandrak            


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Date Posted:  Tuesday, September 29, 2009, 04:44:15 PM     view milano27yo profile  send private message to milano27yo

Hi Drey and Madrak, you guys rock!:-)

Thanks for your more detailed explanation Drey, I was thinking of visit to Salvador because of large dark skin population (at least Wiki says so), but wasn't sure if they are as gay friendly and offer-oriented as in Rio...

Mandrak, I rest assured now, for you brought the light and joy!:-))) And thanks for the reccomendation, can I find his pictures somewhere on the net?

Will update you when I return how it went....:-))))

Drey, the site is great and I will recommend it to all of my friends that are Brazil oriented. It's simply a jewel of information.

Thnx guys!

M27


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Date Posted:  Tuesday, September 29, 2009, 04:59:42 PM     view trilingual profile  send private message to trilingual

After you experience Rio, you might want to visit Salvador on your next trip. It's a fascinating city and, as Wiki correctly points out, the most "African" city in Brazil. There are saunas there, too, although I don't have up-to-date information on them. Perhaps one of our readers has been there recently and would like to provide an update on what's hot there? But you can be sure there's fun to had almost anywhere you go in Brazil! I look forward to your comments and descriptions of your trip!


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Date Posted:  Tuesday, September 29, 2009, 06:53:32 PM     view ihpguy profile  send private message to ihpguy

In my group, the darker-toned are called "NEGAO"


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"Negão" usually refers to a dark-skinned guy who is also tall and muscular. "Preto" is the word generally used to describe their color, if they are dark-skinned.


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Date Posted:  Wednesday, September 30, 2009, 11:23:53 AM     view Mandrak profile  send private message to Mandrak

http://www.riorelax.com.br/rp/thiago/

He goes under the name Jago in sauna.


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Date Posted:  Wednesday, September 30, 2009, 11:29:27 AM     view ihpguy profile  send private message to ihpguy

Where I live, the term used is always "negao", for fat, thin, muscular or not.  I've never heard the word "preto" used in that context.  But then, where I am at, life is different than in the bigger bairros.  Perhaps that is the difference.


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Hi guys! Just came back from Rio today and had a BLAST of a time! Depression I'm experiencing now is only to be cured with a "as fast as I can“ return date and a bottle of Nutella.:-)
 
I will report you all in days to come about the experiences that I had regarding the clubbing ( Boite 1140 http://www.boite1140.com.br/home.htm being the best one for me), escorts (Raphael... 195 cm tall, 110 kg of muscles and 22 cm cock black stud) and security issues (and the exaggerated warnings all around the internet)…
 
Today I’m just too tired and sad to write anything.:-))) Ok, except this…
 
I fell so in love with Brazil that it just isn’t fair!!!!:-) Can someone help with how to cure it as soon as possible?:-)))))
 
Kisses and hugs!
 
M27


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Milano,

I don't think I've heard of a worst case of what Brazilians call "saudades".  There no direct English translation, but it's a mixture of longing, some sadness, but also hope for future encounter.

The only known cure is to take two more trips and call me in the morning

And, of course, relive your Brazilian adventures on this site and those of others.

My diagnosis is that you're now a "Brazil Nut".  Congratulations and glad you had a great time!

- Drey


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Date Posted:  Monday, October 12, 2009, 09:51:38 PM     view Gingado profile  send private message to Gingado

Glad to hear that your first trip into the arms of Mother Brasil was great.  I'm sure the majority of people come, participate, and return home without any nasty events.  But in what regard to you think the cautions were overstated?  "security issues (and the exaggerated warnings all around the internet)…"


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Gringado let me answer that for you – a lot! When I first visited Rio (March 2009) I was scared so much that on the first night I did not dear to leave my hotel. And that was Ipanema Plaza on Farme Street! Of course, you have to be careful. I think that the main rule is not to look like a tourist showing off your money, and taking a cab every time you are not sure how secure or dangerous the neighborhood you are spending the night is. Also it is very important not to piss anyone off with our western “so full of ourselves” attitude. That is it! Rest is paranoia. And when you read things that are posted on the internet you think that at least 10 tourists are killed or injured every night in Rio. That is a picture you get before you go to Rio if you do the research on net. No one ever tried to rob me or injure me anywhere in Rio and I spent 25 day total this year there.  I don’t mean to tell you that you can totally relax, city is wild with all the good and bad sides of that, but people are panicking when they arrive so much they are not able to relax at all because they are influenced by this negative propaganda.        

After all, I like a bit of danger! It Makes city more interesting.

Mandrak 


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I can't ever say a crime comited against a tourist is "deserved", but the few crimes, (muggings for a purse) I have seen have been really dumb people doing stupid things.  I was at a party on the beach at night with many friends, (50).  In front of the Copacabana Palace far from the road, we saw two different couples out walking the shore with large purses.  Kids came, mugeed them , and they were helpless victims.  I have also seen way to many drunken tourist men with shady looking hooker women...(begging to be the victim).  Make friends, and be with them all the time.  It's a safer bet.  My Rio friends love to go to sauna with me, and I always but my best friend a biy there!  He helps with any language issues, and gets a boy out of it!



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As I said, I believe that most of the people who visit Rio enjoy themselves without suffering a negative event.  But I would still prefer to err on the side of caution.  Forewarned is forarmed.  Frankly, I don't think the cautions are overstated.  More likely there may be some people who over-react to those warnings. 


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Hi guys... I understand a lot what Mandrak is saying because I was scared to death when I was going there and was putting paranoia on my friends about various things that I collected through my internet research of security issues of Rio De Janeiro. If a friend I was traveling with hadn't had a Carioca friend the first night we were there, I think that the experience would be significantly worse. He took us to Ipanema beach that very night, the beach was lit and people were walking and hanging around (talking about the Farme gay beach part). The part I spent most time in was Ipanema, and I think it is fairly safe even in late hours (on Farme street the bars are working till late in the night).
 
I also understand you Gingado, but I think that you should stress out that the warnings are referred to total “bell curve” area (to use statistics language), that means also the extreme scenario events which occur extremely rare and almost only if provoked by insane behavior, such as walking through a dark alley in unknown area of the town where there are no people or on “brothel” areas of Copacabana with large Gucci bag… I appreciate your effort to give warnings about all possible events but I was really scared… I don’t think you can hardly misinterpret or over-react on the bolded large printed warnings like NEVER EVER EVEN THINK and similar … On the other hand, a Rio tourist has to be aware that some hard events can occur even in conditions of normal behavior, but that is the issue with all big cities and I’m not sure how much weight has to be added to Rio on that point…
 
Also, when I was going to The Week by taxi, the driver himself warned me not to leave the club area on foot but only with cab… That was nice. But he didn’t have to do it, because I don’t know what would force me to walk home through the center at night after seeing the streets we drove through… I don’t know… For me some things are self-understandable and shouldn’t be stressed out so hard.
 
Drey, should I write my experiences here or split them up through the topics around the site? Thnx!
 
M27  


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Date Posted:  Tuesday, October 13, 2009, 02:09:31 PM     view Drey profile  send private message to Drey

Being in the travel business, I find myself answering that question alot for first-time travelers.  And, I recall having to do a bit of convincing with Mandrak as well

I believe most travelers to Rio don't make the distinction between the favelas and areas where most Cariocas live, including the tourist areas.

One could look at the homicide rates, the violence, and lack of respect for human life that transpires in the favelas and reasonably compare it to Baghdad.


I only recently learned that corrupt police actually sell the weapons to the favela drug lords, most likely to make up for their meager salaries. 

Hopefully, the attention and promised social changes due to Rio hosting the Olympics will have a positive impact on the lives of the favela dwellers, but one never knows.

In my five years of traveling to Rio, I have not experienced a single incident of being threatened, mugged, or violence of any sort.

- Drey


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Date Posted:  Tuesday, October 13, 2009, 04:26:19 PM     view ihpguy profile  send private message to ihpguy

Great youtube to view.  This has to be a bit older as Cabral was still mayor, but now the governor. The last couple of minutes mentions the militias that now control about 100 favelas.  What they did not mention was the protection fees they demand from everyday citizens. I have heard of five different people from three different areas who have to pay a monthly fee for protection: Jacarepagua, Guaratiba and Sepetiba.  Very scary. And the militias will kill you.  Just like what the guy at the end of the video says will happen if he is out after 10:00PM.  

 


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Date Posted:  Tuesday, October 13, 2009, 05:23:18 PM     view trilingual profile  send private message to trilingual

Visitors should use reasonable care when in Rio, but some of the warnings are probably over the top. Use common sense and remember that you are in a big city with a lot of poor people and you should stay safe. Milano, post your experiences in the appropriate topics -- nightlife in the nightlife topic, sauna adventures here in the Hot Zone, etc. We're really looking forward to hearing about your adventures and impressions of Rio! It sounds like you had a great time!


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Date Posted:  Tuesday, October 13, 2009, 06:05:52 PM     view Drey profile  send private message to Drey

Yes, and we didn't mean to hijack your thread to talk about security issues.

Looking forward to hearing about your adventures.


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Date Posted:  Wednesday, October 14, 2009, 11:37:31 AM     view axiom2001 profile  send private message to axiom2001

How did Milano's post generate the subsequent posts regarding "violence and the safety issue" as it supposedly exists in Rio? Has this topic not been written about a lot on this site as well as on www.daddysreviews.com in the "Escorts South... section? Generate a separate thread,por favor, to render your ideas! You spoiled Milano's post and his query!


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Milano, I'd suggest that you just smile often and bask in the afterglow and plan future trips! ...loved Drey's line: "The only known cure is take two trips and call me in the morning." Might I suggest that you take seven or more? - - -


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I have told the story of my mugging on my first visit to Rio about 5 years ago numerous times on the forum and I hate bores but when I read some of the posts on this thread I feel it necessary to intervene. I was mugged at knife point by 3 thugs (not "kids") at 6:30pm almost in front of the Copacabana Palace with a group of local on lookers just standing a few metres away watching and ignoring my screams for help.Arguably the principle lesson to be learnt from this experience is that you are not safe just because an area is "busy" or "there are plenty of people around" phrases I have read on this and other forums. I was not flashing a purse, jewels or technological devices. Mandrak, having a semi circular knife neatly wrapped around your throat is not a fun experience that makes a city more "interesting".

I have returned to Brazil 3 times and will be back for a month at end November but I very much wiser. Crime in Brazil is a reality, a mugging such as mine was a terrifying experience and if retelling my story will help communicate this fact then I will have performed a service.


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Yes, we've heard your story Sydneyboy

As I've said, I've never experienced the same and I'm sure you took every precaution.

The only difference is that I usually go to Copacabana beach with a group of friends that include a lot of hunky Brazilian guys that no one would dare mess with.

While traveling to Brazil, you get hit with an airline tax, the hotels have their own tax, and I've considered paying a cute Brazilian to walk me back to the hotel or Corujinha a security tax.

When I buy something here in the US there's always a sales tax.

As the video I posted states, the militia charges for security too.

I'm not saying you were being cheap by not having a gorgeous Brazilian by your side, but next time spend some of those Aussie Dollars

- Drey


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Date Posted:  Wednesday, October 14, 2009, 03:48:16 PM     view trilingual profile  send private message to trilingual

Hi, Milano. I hope you've recovered enough from your trip to start telling us about your adventures in Brazil. Lots of us are really looking forward to hearing about your trip there! You probably should start a new thread, though -- this one is getting kind of long and has gone a bit off track. But I definitely want to hear about your experience with Raphael!


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Yes Milano please.  Let's move on to happier tails of your adventures.


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Drey

I give you my solemn promise that I will not tell my "story" again. I know I have repeated it many times but let me assure it is experience not to be forgotten. The Aussie dollar is now in excess of 92US cents and rapidly heading north. One local respected economist was speculating that it could reach the heady days of the mid 70's of 1.49US when in my "youth" I visited San Francisco every year. Oh memories!


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Every time that sydneyboy decides to repeat his  story it just amazes me how he seems to blame the locals for failing to risk their lives to rescue him from his assault, perhaps even more so than the actual attackers.  


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Marcos

You are absolutely right. At the time I was angrier at the 8-10 locals than my 3 attackers. As the American gent who came to my (belated) assistance said of the on lookers "sir, they won't help, they won't help". In my own country I doubt that people would just stand and do nothing if somebody was the victim of a violent assault. Even after the attackers had departed they just stood staring at me like stuffed dummies (and I know I have used that metaphor before) and did nothing to come to my aid. According to one contributor to this thread danger makes a city more interesting. You would have thought according to this perverted logic that all present  would have wanted to join in the dangerous fun I was having. Marcos, I am sorry if I am boring you but I repeat that my motivation in telling (and repeating) my story is to prevent this happening to somebody else.

As I promised Drey I will not mention this again. I hope Marcos that this will make your day and ensure that tonight you will have a good night's rest safe in the knowledge that you will not have to suffer from reading my repetitive tedium.

PS I do not need reminding that sarcasm is the lowest form of wit.


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Sydneyboy,

Members of this board need to have their eyes remain open to possible dangers in Rio de Janeiro. One's personal safety she be of the greatest importance while traveling anywhere in the world.  Those that make light of certain dangers are being unfair to newer travelers to Rio. I think you need to keep on telling your story over and over.  It keeps the rest of us on our toes.  The bystanders who did not help you? What could they do with no weapons? Who will help them after they get sliced and diced? Support them if they are unable to work or support their families if they are killed trying to help you out? 

I told a story of the mugger where I live.  His death was pronounced a suicide by the police. They found him on the floor with a large stone next to his smashed-in face.  Like he actually killed himself in this manner?   Another story I have told before is sitting on the beach in Ipanema with my Paulista.  Two garotos de programa were actually talking about doing the "Boa Noite Cinderella" that night on the two French-speaking tourists they had latched on to.  I assume that they  figured that we didn't speak Portuguese as we were conversing in English.  What were we to do? Warn these tourists? Await retribution? Shouldn't we be scared that the tourists would tell them what we had warned them of? 

Never fear as I am lower than you on the sarcasm meter.  Between Rio's fast-expanding metro, the newest architectural renderings of the Olympic village and a proposed demonstration sport, my tongue is pressed firmly in-cheek.  Along with the hoped-for pau duro.

 

 

 

 


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Sidney, I am sorry if my statement insulted your feelings. I wrote “a bit of danger” as I remember. Your story is a lot of danger. There is a difference.  But you must admit that sometimes “a bit of danger” makes your adrenaline pumping.


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